Dilemma #21
Should we invite children to our wedding? Some family members are upset about our child-free policy.
The Story #21
This is one of the most common dilemmas we hear! The key is consistency and communication. If you decide on a child-free wedding, stick to it for all guests to avoid hurt feelings. Address invitations to only the adults, and be prepared for some guests to decline—that's their choice. Consider offering a few exceptions for nursing infants or out-of-town family if it feels right for you...
Our Answer
Obama Johson
Wedding Planner & Etiquette Expert
Sarah has been planning weddings for over 10 years and has helped hundreds of couples navigate family dynamics and tricky decisions. She's the author of "The Modern Bride's Guide to Stress-Free Planning."